Create, Don’t Compare

Somewhere between scrolling and sighing, we forgot a very important life skill: minding our own magic.
We create something—an idea, a post, a painting, a plan—and before it even finishes breathing, we drag it into the crowded marketplace of comparison. Suddenly, our newborn thought looks underdressed next to someone else’s perfectly styled success.

Comparison is that uninvited aunt at a family function—always asking, “But why not like them?”

Here’s the truth no one puts on motivational posters: comparison doesn’t kill creativity loudly; it smothers it politely.
It whispers, “Nice try, but have you seen what THEY did?”

“Comparison is the thief of joy, but creation is the quiet rebellion.”

When you create, you are original by default.
When you compare, you audition for someone else’s role.

Think of creativity like cooking without a recipe. Someone else might be baking a five-tier cake, while you’re inventing a weird-but-wonderful chai-flavoured brownie. Both have a place. But if you keep peeking into their oven, you’ll burn your own dish.

“You don’t need to be better than anyone—just braver than yesterday.”

The funny thing is, we compare our behind-the-scenes with someone else’s highlight reel. We judge our messy drafts against their polished finals. That’s like feeling bad because your plant hasn’t grown while comparing it to a plastic one—perfect, shiny, and completely fake.

Creation asks for presence.
Comparison demands permission.
One sets you free; the other keeps you busy feeling small.

“Create so deeply that comparison forgets your address.”

So write the imperfect sentence. Paint the crooked line. Start the project with zero likes and full heart. Let your work wobble, grow, and find its own rhythm. The world doesn’t need another copy—it needs your version, unfinished and honest.

Because when you stop comparing, something magical happens:
You hear your own voice again.

Thought to Ponder 🌱

If you spent half the energy you use comparing on creating…
what beautiful thing might already exist by now?

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