Welcome to Sharon’s Read and Reflect — a cozy corner for curious minds and wandering thoughts! ✨ I’m Sharon Clara Fernandes, someone who believes reading adds wings to the mind and writing gives it a voice. 📚 Here, I pour my thoughts, a dash of humor, and a sprinkle of reflection into every piece I write. The more we read, the more we grow — and I’m learning right along with you! So grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and let’s journey through words together. ☕💭
There’s something beautifully inconvenient about the human brain. Out of all the intelligent, logical, problem-solving abilities it possesses, it still occasionally behaves like a hopeless romantic who forgot to read the instruction manual of reality.You know the feeling.That quiet pull toward someone.That unnecessary smile when their name pops up.That strange comfort in just being around... Continue Reading →
Somewhere between “I don’t want to go to school” and “What if something bad happens?” lies a world we often underestimate—our child’s anxiety. It doesn’t always knock loudly; sometimes it sneaks in disguised as tummy aches, sudden tears, or that mysterious “I just don’t feel like it.”Parenting, as it turns out, is not just about... Continue Reading →
Somewhere between packing lunch boxes, answering office calls, finding missing socks, and remembering who likes less sugar in their milk, a silent myth is born — “A good mother is always available.”It sounds noble. It feels right. But let’s be honest… it’s also a little dangerous.Because being “always available” often means being always exhausted.And exhaustion... Continue Reading →
There is something quietly magical about a pencil. Not loud like a keyboard, not permanent like a pen, but patient… forgiving… almost wise.A pencil doesn’t argue when you make a mistake. It simply waits.“A pencil never says, ‘You’re wrong.’ It whispers, ‘Try again.’”Think about that for a moment. In a world where people are quick... Continue Reading →
There’s a tiny, uninvited guest that quietly moves into our hearts the day someone we love rearranges their priorities. It doesn’t knock. It doesn’t introduce itself. It just sits there, sipping on our thoughts and whispering, “You’ve been replaced.”We call it jealousy. Or insecurity. But honestly, it’s just love feeling a little lost.“I’m not upset... Continue Reading →
Someone once said, “Raising children prepares you for many things… except dealing with grown-ups.”And honestly, the more we interact with adults, the more we realise something amusing: handling children is often far easier than handling adults.Children cry loudly when they are upset. Adults smile politely while silently building emotional volcanoes.Children fight over a toy for... Continue Reading →
Parenting books will teach you how to potty train, how to discipline, how to pack a balanced lunch box that looks like a Pinterest festival.But no one really teaches you how to build trust.And trust, my dear parent, is not built during annual vacations or birthday parties with balloon arches. It is built on a... Continue Reading →
There is a salary that never appears in our bank accounts, yet it fills our hearts instantly. It is not credited on the first of every month. It does not require tax deduction. It comes in simple words:“Good job.”“I noticed your effort.”“Thank you.”Appreciation is the invisible currency of human motivation.Imagine an office where reports are... Continue Reading →
There is a tiny word that weighs nothing yet carries mountains.“Thank you.”It doesn’t glitter like expensive gifts. It doesn’t make dramatic entrances. It quietly walks into a room and rearranges the air.Have you noticed how a simple “thank you” can straighten someone’s tired shoulders? The shopkeeper who has been standing all day suddenly smiles wider.... Continue Reading →
We live in a world where opinions travel faster than light and patience walks barefoot.Someone is late — irresponsible.Someone is quiet — arrogant.Someone says no — rude.Judgment is quick. Understanding takes effort. “We judge in seconds what took someone years to survive.” It’s almost funny how confidently we create stories in our minds. We become... Continue Reading →
There was a time—not in the Stone Age, but in the early millennial classroom—when love in school came with a warning label.If a girl and a boy spoke for more than three minutes, the entire class would behave like investigative journalists. If someone had a “partner,” it was treated less like a friendship and more... Continue Reading →
We grow up hearing, “All you need is love.”Songs sing it. Movies glorify it. Stories wrap it in slow motion and background music.But real life? Real life doesn’t come with violins.Love is beautiful — no doubt. It’s the spark. The butterflies. The reason two strangers decide to sit next to each other and share a... Continue Reading →
They say nothing is more constant than change. Ironically, the moment change knocks, we pretend we’re not home. We hide behind routines, clutch our comfort zones like old blankets, and whisper, “Everything was fine yesterday.”Change is funny that way. We admire it in motivational quotes, applaud it in success stories, and recommend it generously to... Continue Reading →
If someone had told millennials that one day we would raise our kids using a philosophy called gentle parenting, most of us would have laughed, adjusted our Walkman earphones, and gone back to watching Small Wonder. Yet here we are—parents of a digital generation—trying to raise emotionally intelligent children while our own emotional intelligence is... Continue Reading →
If love is a warm hug, emotional boundaries are the cozy sweater that keeps that hug from turning into a chokehold. We often assume boundaries are fences built for strangers, but the truth is: we need the strongest boundaries with the people we love the most. Why? Because closeness without clarity becomes chaos.As the writer... Continue Reading →
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