Welcome to Sharon’s Read and Reflect — a cozy corner for curious minds and wandering thoughts! ✨ I’m Sharon Clara Fernandes, someone who believes reading adds wings to the mind and writing gives it a voice. 📚 Here, I pour my thoughts, a dash of humor, and a sprinkle of reflection into every piece I write. The more we read, the more we grow — and I’m learning right along with you! So grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and let’s journey through words together. ☕💭
There are people in my lifeWho feel like exhale after a long breath,Like removing tight shoes after a tiring day,Comfort, without announcement.With them, I don’t arrange my words,They fall—messy, honest, real,And somehow, they still understandWhat even I struggle to explain.“I’m fine” never fools them,They read the silence between my sentences,They hear the pause, not just... Continue Reading →
The other day, while chatting with a friend over a casual conversation, I asked a very common question: “So, what are your plans next?”He smiled and replied calmly, “I would rather not share that… let my success speak.”For a moment, I was surprised. We are so used to sharing everything—our goals, our dreams, our next... Continue Reading →
For years, I had a very serious plan.Step 1: Get a tattoo.Step 2: Decide which tattoo.Step 3: Panic.Step 4: Postpone.And repeat Step 4 for… well… several years.Some people wake up one day and spontaneously get a tattoo. I, on the other hand, treated the decision like writing a PhD thesis. I researched symbols, fonts, meanings,... Continue Reading →
Somewhere between searching for your misplaced spectacles and realizing you actually enjoy quiet evenings more than loud parties, forty arrives. Not with fireworks. Not with a dramatic announcement. It simply knocks on the door and says, “Hello, I’m here… and by the way, life is just getting interesting.”People often whisper about forty as if it’s... Continue Reading →
Every night before sleeping, many of us proudly tick another box on the calendar.Monday survived.Tuesday managed.Wednesday somehow escaped.And suddenly it’s Sunday evening again, when the brain whispers dramatically, “Oh no… tomorrow is Monday.”Life has slowly become a series of survived days rather than lived ones.We wake up, rush through routines, reply to messages, attend meetings,... Continue Reading →
We live in a world where being “busy” has become a badge of honor. If you’re not tired, are you even trying? If your calendar has white spaces, are you wasting your potential?Hustle culture whispers seductively, “Sleep is for the weak. Rest later. Build now.”And we nod, sipping our third cup of coffee like it’s... Continue Reading →
There is something strangely exhausting about people who are always performing.Not the artists. Not the actors on stage. I mean the everyday “Oscar winners” who wake up, stretch dramatically, and put on a personality like it’s their favorite outfit of the day.At first, it’s impressive.They say the perfect things. Laugh at the perfect volume. Post... Continue Reading →
There are days when life feels like a buffet plate at a wedding — overloaded, unstable, and one wrong move away from disaster. Work deadlines, school projects, unread messages, laundry that multiplies like it has a PhD in reproduction — and somewhere in between, you are expected to “stay calm.”Sometimes, our brain simply looks at... Continue Reading →
We live in a world where silence feels suspicious.Netflix while eating. Reels in the bathroom. Music while cooking. Podcasts on walks. Notifications buzzing like overenthusiastic mosquitoes. Somewhere between “just one episode” and “just five minutes,” our brains quietly surrendered.And the funny part? We don’t even notice.We consume by default, not by intention.There was a time... Continue Reading →
Life is the most punctual thing I know. It never waits outside the door while we finish worrying about tomorrow. It simply rings the bell and walks in.We, however, are different creatures. We sit with a cup of tea, reheating it three times, thinking about a future that hasn’t even sent us a calendar invite... Continue Reading →
Have you ever been surrounded by people—family, friends, notifications buzzing like obedient bees—and still felt unbearably alone? Not the dramatic, rain-soaked movie loneliness. The quieter kind. The kind that sits beside you while you scroll, nod, smile, and say, “I’m fine.” Loneliness isn’t the absence of people. It’s the absence of being felt. Psychology tells... Continue Reading →
These days, being straightforward is worn like a badge of honour. People say things like, “I’m just being honest” or “That’s just how I talk”—as if words come with no aftertaste. But honesty without sensitivity is like serving plain salt instead of a meal. It may be real, but it burns.Assertive behaviour is often misunderstood.... Continue Reading →
Trauma is a strange kind of editor. It doesn’t use red ink or loud corrections. It writes quietly, in invisible ink, revising our reactions, preferences, and pauses—long before we realize we’ve been edited at all.Trauma doesn’t always arrive like a thunderstorm. Sometimes it slips in like a dripping tap: a harsh word repeated too often,... Continue Reading →
If burnout had a face, it would probably look like a tired parent hiding in the bathroom for five minutes of peace or an office employee pretending to type vigorously while actually scrolling through holiday packages they can’t afford. Burnout is the mind’s version of saying, “Okay, enough. I’m done. Reboot me or lose me.”Psychologically,... Continue Reading →
Procrastination is not laziness. Laziness is doing nothing and feeling okay about it. Procrastination is doing everything else while feeling guilty about not doing the one thing that matters. It’s replying to emails you don’t need to reply to, reorganizing your cupboard at midnight, and suddenly remembering to water a plant that survived weeks of... Continue Reading →
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