Confidence: Not a One-Size-Fits-All Outfit

Who is the most confident person you know?

Confidence is a funny thing—it’s not a one-size-fits-all trait. It’s situational, ever-changing, and often unpredictable. A person who commands a boardroom with ease may fumble when faced with a room full of toddlers. A fearless traveler may hesitate when making a life-changing decision.

“Confidence is not ‘they will like me.’ Confidence is ‘I’ll be fine if they don’t.’” – Christina Grimmie

In my workplace, I’ve come across many confident individuals—people who take bold steps, make tough decisions, and own their choices. I’ve admired them, even wished I had taken similar leaps. But does that mean I lack confidence? Not at all. When I know my subject well, when I am certain of my accuracy, I step forward with unwavering confidence. But in unfamiliar waters, even the strongest swimmer may hesitate.

Among all the people I’ve met, the most confident person I know is my mother. She is the embodiment of strength, resilience, and unwavering belief. From my childhood, I’ve watched her handle responsibilities beyond just raising me—she has supported her parents, guided her siblings, and managed countless challenges with grace.

“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” – Anaïs Nin

Even during my wedding, amidst opposition and challenges, she stood beside me, firm and fearless. Her confidence wasn’t just about speaking loudly or making bold statements—it was in her quiet assurance, her steadfast support, and her ability to navigate life’s storms without losing herself.

A Thought to Ponder: Confidence is like WiFi—strong in some areas, weak in others, and occasionally, it just needs a little reset. Where does your signal shine the brightest?