Welcome to Sharon’s Read and Reflect — a cozy corner for curious minds and wandering thoughts! ✨ I’m Sharon Clara Fernandes, someone who believes reading adds wings to the mind and writing gives it a voice. 📚 Here, I pour my thoughts, a dash of humor, and a sprinkle of reflection into every piece I write. The more we read, the more we grow — and I’m learning right along with you! So grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and let’s journey through words together. ☕💭
Have you ever noticed how our mind deserves an Olympic medal for high jump? It doesn’t walk to conclusions. It doesn’t jog. It leaps. Without warm-up. Without stretching. Straight into drama.Someone doesn’t reply to your message?“Oh, they’re ignoring me.”Your friend walks past without smiling?“She’s upset with me.”A colleague sounds serious?“He must be angry.”Our mind is... Continue Reading →
Emotional regulation sounds like something taught in a laboratory—white coats, clipboards, and a stern reminder to “breathe.” In reality, it’s the everyday skill that saves us from sending regret-filled texts, slamming doors dramatically, or crying over a coffee that went cold because life got in the way.We are emotional creatures pretending to be logical ones.... Continue Reading →
Have you ever noticed how one tiny moment can hijack your entire day? A sharp tone from a colleague. A spilled glass of milk. A child beginning a sentence with “Amma…” and before the sentence even reaches the full stop—boom—we explode. That, dear reader, is not personality. That is reaction.I once came across something called... Continue Reading →
Ever wondered why some people reply “Seen” and vanish like a magician’s assistant, while others panic if you don’t reply in five minutes and start planning your funeral?Congratulations—you’ve just met attachment styles, the invisible emotional operating systems quietly running our relationships.Attachment styles are not labels to shame ourselves with. Think of them more like the... Continue Reading →
Reality is often blamed for our moods. “The day was bad.” “People are difficult.” “Life is unfair.” But what if reality is just a polite waiter, serving whatever dish our thoughts order—without questioning the recipe?Every morning, before the world even clears its throat, our thoughts wake up first. They stretch, yawn, and whisper predictions. Today... Continue Reading →
Between smiles and sighs, emotions hide,We wear strength, but cracks reside.It’s not the storms that tear hearts apart—It’s the silent rain inside the heart. 💔 Have you ever noticed how it’s not the big storms that sink most relationships—but the slow leaks we ignore for years? The tiny hurts. The unspoken “I wish you understood.”... Continue Reading →
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