Welcome to Sharon’s Read and Reflect — a cozy corner for curious minds and wandering thoughts! ✨ I’m Sharon Clara Fernandes, someone who believes reading adds wings to the mind and writing gives it a voice. 📚 Here, I pour my thoughts, a dash of humor, and a sprinkle of reflection into every piece I write. The more we read, the more we grow — and I’m learning right along with you! So grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and let’s journey through words together. ☕💭
When you were five, what did you want to be when you grew up? At three, I declared with the conviction of a seasoned expert, "I will be a doctor!" By five, I had the stethoscope (plastic, of course) and the white coat (courtesy of my school’s fancy dress competition). If dreams had degrees, I... Continue Reading →
What’s something most people don’t understand? Once upon a time, in a land not so far away—let’s call it Earth—people possessed a magical ability called empathy. It allowed them to feel what others felt, understand pain without experiencing it firsthand, and offer kindness without expecting a return. But alas, as the world became faster, louder,... Continue Reading →
How has technology changed your job? Once upon a time, my job involved stacks of papers, sticky notes plastered on every surface, and that classic, satisfying thwack of a stamp on a document. Fast forward to today, my work life has morphed into a digital circus, with multiple tabs, endless notifications, and the ever-dreaded "You’re... Continue Reading →
How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals? For years, I was a certified "yes" person — the go-to for favors, last-minute plans, and rescuing doomed group projects. If someone asked me to write their notes or cook a meal they liked, my reflexive "sure!" often left me wondering... Continue Reading →
What's a secret skill or ability you have or wish you had? Have you ever been in a situation where you desperately wished you could read someone's mind? I have — more times than I can count.Imagine this: My kids are unusually quiet, a rare and suspicious event. I ask, "What's going on?" and they... Continue Reading →
What is your favorite type of weather? "Sunshine is delicious, rain is refreshing, wind braces us up, snow is exhilarating; there is really no such thing as bad weather, only different kinds of good weather." — John Ruskin Isn't it fascinating how the sky shifts moods? Each weather has its own charm — a gentle... Continue Reading →
Who was your most influential teacher? Why? They say, "Life is the best teacher; it gives you the test first and the lesson later." Indeed, every dawn brings a fresh lesson, whether through unexpected challenges or quiet realizations. But my classroom isn't limited to life's unpredictabilities—my children, with their boundless curiosity and tantrums, are profound... Continue Reading →
What do you wish you could do more every day? In the hustle and bustle of daily life, there are days when I wish I could hit the pause button and savor more moments with my children. I mean, wouldn't it be nice to have an extra hour magically appear each day? An extra hour... Continue Reading →
What tattoo do you want and where would you put it? I've always believed tattoos should carry a story — a blend of meaning, memory, and a little mischief. My first tattoo, a delicate heart with an "S" nestled inside, was inked during my college days when life was a mix of dreams and daring... Continue Reading →
What is one word that describes you? Life is a rollercoaster, and I am the rider who clutches the safety bar at the dips yet throws my hands up and laughs at the peaks. If I had to choose one word to define myself, it would be resilient—the art of adapting, bouncing back, and finding... Continue Reading →
What was the best compliment you've received? Who doesn’t love compliments? They are like little sprinkles of joy that brighten our day and keep us moving forward. While I have received many wonderful compliments, the one that stands out is when my friends call me the best motivator. “Encouragement is oxygen for the soul.” –... Continue Reading →
You’re going on a cross-country trip. Airplane, train, bus, car, or bike? There’s something inherently poetic about travel. It’s not just about the miles but the moments—the unexpected detours, the peculiar strangers, the quiet epiphanies. If I were to cross the country, what would be my chosen chariot? Plane, train, bus, car, or bike? Each... Continue Reading →
Who is the most confident person you know? Confidence is a funny thing—it’s not a one-size-fits-all trait. It’s situational, ever-changing, and often unpredictable. A person who commands a boardroom with ease may fumble when faced with a room full of toddlers. A fearless traveler may hesitate when making a life-changing decision. “Confidence is not ‘they... Continue Reading →
What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings? Negative feelings are like uninvited guests at a party—they show up unannounced, refuse to leave, and sometimes even eat all the cake. But instead of letting them ruin the fun, why not learn to dance with them?A friend once told me, “After every night, there... Continue Reading →
What activities do you lose yourself in? They say time flies when you're having fun. But have you ever been so engrossed in something that time doesn’t just fly—it disappears? That’s the magic of losing yourself in an activity you love.For me, three things do the trick: reading, writing, and my latest obsession—designing posters. Each... Continue Reading →
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