Welcome to Sharon’s Read and Reflect — a cozy corner for curious minds and wandering thoughts! ✨ I’m Sharon Clara Fernandes, someone who believes reading adds wings to the mind and writing gives it a voice. 📚 Here, I pour my thoughts, a dash of humor, and a sprinkle of reflection into every piece I write. The more we read, the more we grow — and I’m learning right along with you! So grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and let’s journey through words together. ☕💭
Stress is like that uninvited guest who comes without calling, eats your snacks, and refuses to leave. One minute you’re calmly folding clothes, the next you’re dramatically questioning your life choices because someone moved your charger. “Relax,” they say. As if calmness is kept in the fridge next to leftover curry!But here’s the truth: stress... Continue Reading →
There is a tiny word that weighs nothing yet carries mountains.“Thank you.”It doesn’t glitter like expensive gifts. It doesn’t make dramatic entrances. It quietly walks into a room and rearranges the air.Have you noticed how a simple “thank you” can straighten someone’s tired shoulders? The shopkeeper who has been standing all day suddenly smiles wider.... Continue Reading →
Ever wondered why some people reply “Seen” and vanish like a magician’s assistant, while others panic if you don’t reply in five minutes and start planning your funeral?Congratulations—you’ve just met attachment styles, the invisible emotional operating systems quietly running our relationships.Attachment styles are not labels to shame ourselves with. Think of them more like the... Continue Reading →
They never taught us this in school,How to be kind and still be whole.So we gave, and gave, and gave again,Calling exhaustion “love” in disguise.Boundaries aren’t walls made out of fear,They are windows we open with care.Curtains drawn when the noise is loud,Space to breathe without guilt or doubt.A kind heart without limits bleeds,Not loudly—slowly,... Continue Reading →
Present times have blurred the lines between work life and life life. Once upon a time, work had a location. Home had a smell—of coffee, crayons, or sometimes burnt toast. Now everything lives under one roof. Laptop on the dining table, meetings next to homework, deadlines racing bedtime stories.Some days, I feel like I exist... Continue Reading →
Parenting, they say, is unconditional love. What they forget to mention is that it also involves being a calm human while someone uses your leg as a drum, your patience as a trampoline, and your sanity as a suggestion. Somewhere between “My child is my world” and “Please stop touching me for five minutes” lives... Continue Reading →
Reality is often blamed for our moods. “The day was bad.” “People are difficult.” “Life is unfair.” But what if reality is just a polite waiter, serving whatever dish our thoughts order—without questioning the recipe?Every morning, before the world even clears its throat, our thoughts wake up first. They stretch, yawn, and whisper predictions. Today... Continue Reading →
They say nothing is more constant than change. Ironically, the moment change knocks, we pretend we’re not home. We hide behind routines, clutch our comfort zones like old blankets, and whisper, “Everything was fine yesterday.”Change is funny that way. We admire it in motivational quotes, applaud it in success stories, and recommend it generously to... Continue Reading →
They say real battles are fought silently in the mind, and honestly, that’s where most of us lose before the match even begins. The “Fixed vs Growth Mindset” debate is less like a psychology lesson and more like having two neighbours living rent-free inside your head—one constantly complaining and the other rearranging furniture at midnight... Continue Reading →
Every New Year, people around the world sit with shiny planners, colourful pens, and an energy level that could power an entire city. Resolutions are declared with dramatic flair—“This year, I will be calmer, sleep better, and finally master work–life balance!” But by mid-January, motivation slowly turns into negotiation. Suddenly, we’re saying things like, “Let... Continue Reading →
If burnout had a face, it would probably look like a tired parent hiding in the bathroom for five minutes of peace or an office employee pretending to type vigorously while actually scrolling through holiday packages they can’t afford. Burnout is the mind’s version of saying, “Okay, enough. I’m done. Reboot me or lose me.”Psychologically,... Continue Reading →
If happiness had a lab report, it would probably start with: “Observation: Humans chase happiness like kids chase ice cream trucks.” But the science of happiness isn’t about chasing anything—it’s about understanding how joy is wired into our brains, habits, and tiny everyday choices.Scientists say happiness is 50% genetic, 10% circumstance, and 40% what we... Continue Reading →
Emotional Intelligence (EQ) is the invisible Wi-Fi between your mind and your heart. When it works well, life feels smoother; when it glitches, even a simple “good morning” can turn into a full-blown argument. Daniel Goleman, in his famous book Emotional Intelligence, says, “If your emotional abilities aren’t in hand… then no matter how smart... Continue Reading →
January 1st is magical.You wake up feeling like a brand-new version of yourself—hydrated, motivated, emotionally mature, and suddenly convinced that waking up at 5 a.m. will change your life.By January 15th, the alarm rings……and your resolution quietly slips under the blanket with you.Staying consistent with New Year resolutions isn’t about willpower. It’s about not scaring... Continue Reading →
Every New Year arrives like a fresh notebook—clean pages, crisp corners, and that irresistible smell of possibility. We promise ourselves new habits, new versions, new miracles. Somewhere between the fireworks and the forgotten resolutions, we whisper, “This year will be different.”And it will be.But let’s not pretend we teleported here.We didn’t wake up on January... Continue Reading →
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